"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Moderators,

There have been a number of posts recently from religious types trying to tell people to "come get help", and presenting sex and sexuality in a bad light.

A DJ is going to have sex at some point in time, hopefully multiple times to different people. So these "help" posts are essentially anti-DJ. Can you make them against the rules?

I could go around marking them all for moderation, but I think that would ultimately tick you off, so I'm just saying it in a general sense. I'm sure you've seen them and know what I'm talking about.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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there is more to life than porn and whining about "stealth posters"
 
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you are just mad because I said porn was bad. Porn is totally different from sex. I am all for the real thing, but too many guys here use porn as a substitute to getting the real deal. Thats why I encourage all DJ's to quit the porn with certain tools if necessary.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'll pray for all of you. :)
 
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KarmaSutra is one of them!!! Let's burn Karma!!!

Lets make a list of those who afflict against our cause!!

Carry the DJ bible with you everywhere you go, for it contains knowledge beyond the ages, it is for the now!!! We must forget about the past and burn it, for it is evil!!!!

I wonder how many thousands of years have been destroyed becfause of that type of thinking?
 
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Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
KarmaSutra is one of them!!! Let's burn Karma!!!

Lets make a list of those who afflict against our cause!!

Carry the DJ bible with you everywhere you go, for it contains knowledge beyond the ages, it is for the now!!! We must forget about the past and burn it, for it is evil!!!!

I wonder how many thousands of years have been destroyed becfause of that type of thinking?
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Well, if we're going to do that we need a new 10 commandments.

Commandment #1: Thou shalt have sex with as many neighbors wifes as possible during one lifetime.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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