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Master Don Juan
He's doing nothing but fukking up threads. And he's not remotely humorous. He's like a zit on your asscrack.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Mods, please ban "John Galt"......
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
I rest my case.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Eh, you don't know me well enough to make that assumption.John_Galt said:
But, did this place help you get laid? Or rather, have you managed to get laid since that thread? (I didn't read anything but the first post of it)
That book changed my outlook on life and on women in general. The man really nailed it for me.John_Galt said:
But I'm glad you finally got some. Or rather, it appears that you are trying to improve yourself, so however you present yourself here is really immaterial.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Like I said in my very first post, my intentions are not women, which I think is what makes this board bad since people end up validating themselves through women. I have goals that go far beyond women into my financial, spiritual, physical, and on.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Damn, that's interesting, because I'm at that phase in my life where I'm trying to do the same thing. I'm an Engineer as well and I'm entirely dissatisfied with it.John_Galt said:
I'm looking around at what I actually want to do right now.
After I got out, I just had a realization about things and realized the only reason I took engineering in the first place was because I was good at math and physics. In high school, I had no idea what I wanted to do. I did it, than I realized, it was what everyone else wanted for me. It wasn't what I wanted.
I always wanted to be an entrepreneur, but in the past I'd say to myself, "you're too shy, you're not a people person, you don't know anything about business, just settle for a high paying job, cause that's the only way you're ever going to get money". I had to go battle these things.
I always wanted to be an entrepreneur, but in the past I'd say to myself, "you're too shy, you're not a people person, you don't know anything about business, just settle for a high paying job, cause that's the only way you're ever going to get money". I had to go battle these things.
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