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Master Don Juan
He's doing nothing but fukking up threads. And he's not remotely humorous. He's like a zit on your asscrack.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yeah, you should also check the date when it was posted. I'd hate to be misrepresented. Namean?Vypros said:I just went into your profile and noticed the thread you started about being a virgin.
Noticing your posts around here, I'm wondering if you actually talk/act like this in real life?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I wasn't trying to flame you here.John_Galt said:Yeah, you should also check the date when it was posted. I'd hate to be misrepresented. Namean?
Of course not! The difference between me and you, is that I'm havin' fun.Do you actually act like you do here on these forums in real life?
Eh, you don't know me well enough to make that assumption.John_Galt said:Of course not! The difference between me and you, is that I'm havin' fun.
Yes i did get laid. No the forum didn't help. The only thing decent was pooks stuff in the dj bible.But, did this place help you get laid? Or rather, have you managed to get laid since that thread? (I didn't read anything but the first post of it)
That book changed my outlook on life and on women in general. The man really nailed it for me.John_Galt said:The only thing decent was pooks stuff in the dj bible.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The way you act I find this hard to believe. I bet your stilll a virgin.John_Galt said:Yes i did get laid. No the forum didn't help. The only thing decent was pooks stuff in the dj bible.
Like I've said before, I'm not insecure like you and I don't have to validate myself too you. It's not like your opinion has an effect. Seriously, keep calling me a virgin, it makes me laugh.lookyoung said:The way you act I find this hard to believe. I bet your stilll a virgin.
Word.John_Galt said:Like I said in my very first post, my intentions are not women, which I think is what makes this board bad since people end up validating themselves through women. I have goals that go far beyond women into my financial, spiritual, physical, and on.
It is. The hardest thing I had to do was admit, I didn't want to be an engineer, throw my degree in the garbage, and start my own business.Vypros said:Word.
Then you are a cut above the others here if that is truly your attitude.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Damn, that's interesting, because I'm at that phase in my life where I'm trying to do the same thing. I'm an Engineer as well and I'm entirely dissatisfied with it.John_Galt said:It is. The hardest thing I had to do was admit, I didn't want to be an engineer, throw my degree in the garbage, and start my own business.