"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Mods, please ban "John Galt"......

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He's doing nothing but fukking up threads. And he's not remotely humorous. He's like a zit on your asscrack.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I guess the mayonnaise comment struck a nerve. Would you prefer if I used the term 'frozen hotdogs' instead?
 

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I rest my case.
 

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I just went into your profile and noticed the thread you started about being a virgin.

Noticing your posts around here, I'm wondering if you actually talk/act like this in real life?
 

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Vypros said:
I just went into your profile and noticed the thread you started about being a virgin.

Noticing your posts around here, I'm wondering if you actually talk/act like this in real life?
Yeah, you should also check the date when it was posted. I'd hate to be misrepresented. Namean?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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John_Galt said:
Yeah, you should also check the date when it was posted. I'd hate to be misrepresented. Namean?
I wasn't trying to flame you here.

I was asking you a serious question.

Do you actually act like you do here on these forums in real life?
 

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Do you actually act like you do here on these forums in real life?
Of course not! The difference between me and you, is that I'm havin' fun.
 

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Of course not! The difference between me and you, is that I'm havin' fun.
Eh, you don't know me well enough to make that assumption.

But, did this place help you get laid? Or rather, have you managed to get laid since that thread? (I didn't read anything but the first post of it)
 

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But, did this place help you get laid? Or rather, have you managed to get laid since that thread? (I didn't read anything but the first post of it)
Yes i did get laid. No the forum didn't help. The only thing decent was pooks stuff in the dj bible.
 

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The only thing decent was pooks stuff in the dj bible.
That book changed my outlook on life and on women in general. The man really nailed it for me.

But I'm glad you finally got some. Or rather, it appears that you are trying to improve yourself, so however you present yourself here is really immaterial.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Like I said in my very first post, my intentions are not women, which I think is what makes this board bad since people end up validating themselves through women. I have goals that go far beyond women into my financial, spiritual, physical, and on.
 

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Yes i did get laid. No the forum didn't help. The only thing decent was pooks stuff in the dj bible.
The way you act I find this hard to believe. I bet your stilll a virgin.
 

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The way you act I find this hard to believe. I bet your stilll a virgin.
Like I've said before, I'm not insecure like you and I don't have to validate myself too you. It's not like your opinion has an effect. Seriously, keep calling me a virgin, it makes me laugh.
 

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Like I said in my very first post, my intentions are not women, which I think is what makes this board bad since people end up validating themselves through women. I have goals that go far beyond women into my financial, spiritual, physical, and on.
Word.

Then you are a cut above the others here if that is truly your attitude.
 

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Word.

Then you are a cut above the others here if that is truly your attitude.
It is. The hardest thing I had to do was admit, I didn't want to be an engineer, throw my degree in the garbage, and start my own business.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It is. The hardest thing I had to do was admit, I didn't want to be an engineer, throw my degree in the garbage, and start my own business.
Damn, that's interesting, because I'm at that phase in my life where I'm trying to do the same thing. I'm an Engineer as well and I'm entirely dissatisfied with it.

I'm looking around at what I actually want to do right now.
 

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After I got out, I just had a realization about things and realized the only reason I took engineering in the first place was because I was good at math and physics. In high school, I had no idea what I wanted to do. I did it, than I realized, it was what everyone else wanted for me. It wasn't what I wanted.
I always wanted to be an entrepreneur, but in the past I'd say to myself, "you're too shy, you're not a people person, you don't know anything about business, just settle for a high paying job, cause that's the only way you're ever going to get money". I had to go battle these things.
 
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