speed dawg
Master Don Juan
He's doing nothing but fukking up threads. And he's not remotely humorous. He's like a zit on your asscrack.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mods, please ban "John Galt"......
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
I rest my case.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Eh, you don't know me well enough to make that assumption.John_Galt said:
But, did this place help you get laid? Or rather, have you managed to get laid since that thread? (I didn't read anything but the first post of it)
That book changed my outlook on life and on women in general. The man really nailed it for me.John_Galt said:
But I'm glad you finally got some. Or rather, it appears that you are trying to improve yourself, so however you present yourself here is really immaterial.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Like I said in my very first post, my intentions are not women, which I think is what makes this board bad since people end up validating themselves through women. I have goals that go far beyond women into my financial, spiritual, physical, and on.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Damn, that's interesting, because I'm at that phase in my life where I'm trying to do the same thing. I'm an Engineer as well and I'm entirely dissatisfied with it.John_Galt said:
I'm looking around at what I actually want to do right now.
After I got out, I just had a realization about things and realized the only reason I took engineering in the first place was because I was good at math and physics. In high school, I had no idea what I wanted to do. I did it, than I realized, it was what everyone else wanted for me. It wasn't what I wanted.
I always wanted to be an entrepreneur, but in the past I'd say to myself, "you're too shy, you're not a people person, you don't know anything about business, just settle for a high paying job, cause that's the only way you're ever going to get money". I had to go battle these things.
I always wanted to be an entrepreneur, but in the past I'd say to myself, "you're too shy, you're not a people person, you don't know anything about business, just settle for a high paying job, cause that's the only way you're ever going to get money". I had to go battle these things.
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