"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Its been a while since I've posted. Just curious to know what happened to Eternal aka Crazykid.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Vincent

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Originally posted by -HPNOTIQ-
Its been a while since I've posted. Just curious to know what happened to Eternal aka Crazykid.
He commited suicide after he found out everyone hated him
 

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Actually, he finally discovered what sex was like and has since devoted all of this time to having it. Unfortunately, this meant he had to step down from his position.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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i noticed he stoped posting but im pretty sure i saw him post yesterday!

EDIT: on inspection of his posts, it seems he has been posting a fair bit, i just dont seem to have stumbled accross his posts much recently!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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he got a life and had to give up since the "rules" of moderating from another member says that you can't have a life while you are a moderator.:D
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by comic_relief
he got a life and had to give up since the "rules" of moderating from another member says that you can't have a life while you are a moderator.:D
He doesn't have a life, what are you talking about :p
 
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