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Master Don Juan
Its been a while since I've posted. Just curious to know what happened to Eternal aka Crazykid.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Master Don Juan
Tough loss. He was a stand up mod.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Actually, he finally discovered what sex was like and has since devoted all of this time to having it. Unfortunately, this meant he had to step down from his position.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
i noticed he stoped posting but im pretty sure i saw him post yesterday!
EDIT: on inspection of his posts, it seems he has been posting a fair bit, i just dont seem to have stumbled accross his posts much recently!
EDIT: on inspection of his posts, it seems he has been posting a fair bit, i just dont seem to have stumbled accross his posts much recently!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
he got a life and had to give up since the "rules" of moderating from another member says that you can't have a life while you are a moderator.
He doesn't have a life, what are you talking aboutOriginally posted by comic_relief
he got a life and had to give up since the "rules" of moderating from another member says that you can't have a life while you are a moderator.