"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Eternal
*Runs out the bathroom holding on of the airline pillows to cover myself, steals my peanuts back, goes back to have fun with my girl.*
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* rats you out to the stewartess and gets free peanuts:)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Eternal
Yeah Pen, you can have Gio's nuts...Hopefully they aren't in airtight packages either.
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they arent in packages but they are pretty tight:)
 
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Originally posted by penkitten
* rats you out to the stewartess and gets free peanuts:)
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*Grabs more free peanuts when passing by the stewartess.*
 
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Originally posted by Eternal
Hmm...So I guess joking around about rape is now ok? Let me ask the other females this question...

Were you offended by what I said to Wyldfire?

Now this...

Were you offended by what Wyld said?
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Eternal...you're missing the entire point. You had NO business saying what you did. You are a moderator and are supposed to be setting an example. When you randomly insult people while telling other people not to flame you're being a HYPOCRITE and are not going to be taken seriously or respected.

Why is it so hard for you to understand this very, very simple concept?
 
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Originally posted by penkitten
they arent in packages but they are pretty tight:)
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sounds like fun...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
I think the entire point is now airline peanuts.

Try again later.
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That reminds me...Plane ride Thursday...I've gotta load up on the free peanuts and drinks and trailmix and cards. :D
 
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Originally posted by Eternal
*Grabs more free peanuts when passing by the stewartess.*
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Hey...can we finish here? then you can have all the freakin' peanuts ya want...
*goes back to mile high-ing*
 
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Originally posted by Fist_of_Fury
I thought Eternal's joke was kinda funny. Not so if you took it personally, but funny.

The rape thing, however, was outta line. I really don't thinkg people should f*ck around about that.

Mehs, this is pointless though, as ususal. Another "I'm right, you're wrong and there's nothing you can do about it" post that'll probably go on and on for pages.
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Well, if your boyfriend were more able to comprehend the initial post and just admit that he was being a hypocrite and delete his OWN flame in his post telling others not to do that I would not have had to come up with a "joke" that would offend him to illustrate my point.
 
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Originally posted by Fist_of_Fury
Hey...can we finish here? then you can have all the freakin' peanuts ya want...
*goes back to mile high-ing*
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Hmm...Well, you DO know I like chocolate better than peanuts...

*Goes back to Mile Highing her like never before, which is true.*
 
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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Well, if your boyfriend were more able to comprehend the initial post and just admit that he was being a hypocrite and delete his OWN flame in his post telling others not to do that I would not have had to come up with a "joke" that would offend him to illustrate my point.
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I WOULD reply to this, but I found something a helluva lot better to do with my time...Might I suggest the same?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So Sexy, you gonna give AFK a chance now? He feels left out of the fun...:D
 
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Originally posted by AFK Protector
Did I say 16? That was typo. I clearly meant 21.
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I wonder if she meant "21" as something besides the age...;)
 
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21...oh gawd...:D :D :D
 
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Hate to blow your little fantasy guys, but airlines don't even give out peanuts anymore, lol. So um... go have some fun with trail mix or whatever that crap is they give now.

Wyldfire... we're over it. Why don't you give that frame of mind a try?

And AFK... Can I see some ID please?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Hate to blow your little fantasy guys, but airlines don't even give out peanuts anymore, lol. So um... go have some fun with trail mix or whatever that crap is they give now.
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Actually, they do. A few of my friends just came back from a trip and got some extra peanuts. :D
 
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Hey...USAirways still gives out peanuts. They're in the little silver and blue packages that say "USAirways", so the stewardesses and peanuts and airline sex can continue without a hitch...lol


and eternal: NO thats not a complaint...21..oooh yeahs
 
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Originally posted by Fist_of_Fury
Hey...USAirways still gives out peanuts. They're in the little silver and blue packages that say "USAirways", so the stewardesses and peanuts and airline sex can continue without a hitch...lol
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You mean the silver and blue packages AREN'T condoms? Oh damn...
 
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Wow. I'm surprised. Every time I've flown lately (Delta, Jetblue, Song...) they had no peanuts. Something about peanut-allergies being a death risk, lol. They gave us crappy chips instead. Bleah.

I feel very deprieved now. I want nuts! (wow someone is totally gonna quote me on that one).

...and 21 WHAT? :eek:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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