An MPUA suggested me this..if you are going out with a girl and you cant control your frame(like she gives you a **** test) and end up screwing yourself and looking like an idiot..he says model your idol..it can be anyone you look up to that is good with women..follow his body language, communication style and everything you can relate to..however i'm wondering until when should i model him? what do you think?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Modelling your idol helps control your frame?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
i personally do this alot. If Im ever nervous or unsure what to do, i just model someone that I view as a role model. At the same time, as pook said, "imitation is suicide", so i guess your screwing yourself out of experience but i personally prefer this way
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Master Don Juan
Pook was quoting Emerson, and the original line was, "There comes a time in every man's education where HE comes to realize that imitation is suicide." if you're not there yet and don't understand it, don't worry about it. Emerson also said, "All life is an experiment." so figure it out for yourself.dice said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
thanks guys..what if you model someone you know for some time and you know his bad side too..you want to copy his good traits only right? how do you do that in front of that person? what do you think about visualizing that person?just creating an image of him or a video-like?
another thing i have a close friend and i feel like i was depending too much on him before and now were not so close because i feel like i want to have my own life and i think he doesnt really like it that i'm doing this and he feels that i forgot about him..yeah i agree i rely too much on him before maybe thats why?
another thing i have a close friend and i feel like i was depending too much on him before and now were not so close because i feel like i want to have my own life and i think he doesnt really like it that i'm doing this and he feels that i forgot about him..yeah i agree i rely too much on him before maybe thats why?