An MPUA suggested me this..if you are going out with a girl and you cant control your frame(like she gives you a **** test) and end up screwing yourself and looking like an idiot..he says model your idol..it can be anyone you look up to that is good with women..follow his body language, communication style and everything you can relate to..however i'm wondering until when should i model him? what do you think?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Modelling your idol helps control your frame?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
i personally do this alot. If Im ever nervous or unsure what to do, i just model someone that I view as a role model. At the same time, as pook said, "imitation is suicide", so i guess your screwing yourself out of experience but i personally prefer this way
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Pook was quoting Emerson, and the original line was, "There comes a time in every man's education where HE comes to realize that imitation is suicide." if you're not there yet and don't understand it, don't worry about it. Emerson also said, "All life is an experiment." so figure it out for yourself.dice said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thanks guys..what if you model someone you know for some time and you know his bad side too..you want to copy his good traits only right? how do you do that in front of that person? what do you think about visualizing that person?just creating an image of him or a video-like?
another thing i have a close friend and i feel like i was depending too much on him before and now were not so close because i feel like i want to have my own life and i think he doesnt really like it that i'm doing this and he feels that i forgot about him..yeah i agree i rely too much on him before maybe thats why?
another thing i have a close friend and i feel like i was depending too much on him before and now were not so close because i feel like i want to have my own life and i think he doesnt really like it that i'm doing this and he feels that i forgot about him..yeah i agree i rely too much on him before maybe thats why?