"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ilikecharlene

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if used to complement existing game, i don't see the issue. if it's one's ONLY game, then yeah it's sad/loserish.

I've met 2 women off Facebook, nothing developed in the long-term, but they remain good friends. the key is to pique their attention at the start, stand out and be bold when making contact, and things can pan out good. :rock:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ilikecharlene said:
if used to complement existing game, i don't see the issue. if it's one's ONLY game, then yeah it's sad/loserish.

I've met 2 women off Facebook, nothing developed in the long-term, but they remain good friends. the key is to pique their attention at the start, stand out and be bold when making contact, and things can pan out good. :rock:
I've tried in the past..when you say be bold when making contact what do you mean?
 

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making a message that stands out and compels a response. no **** like "damn, you're hot!" or "want to go out sometime?"
 
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