"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mocking Facebook pick-ups/game

ilikecharlene

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if used to complement existing game, i don't see the issue. if it's one's ONLY game, then yeah it's sad/loserish.

I've met 2 women off Facebook, nothing developed in the long-term, but they remain good friends. the key is to pique their attention at the start, stand out and be bold when making contact, and things can pan out good. :rock:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ilikecharlene said:
if used to complement existing game, i don't see the issue. if it's one's ONLY game, then yeah it's sad/loserish.

I've met 2 women off Facebook, nothing developed in the long-term, but they remain good friends. the key is to pique their attention at the start, stand out and be bold when making contact, and things can pan out good. :rock:
I've tried in the past..when you say be bold when making contact what do you mean?
 

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making a message that stands out and compels a response. no **** like "damn, you're hot!" or "want to go out sometime?"
 
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