"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mocking Facebook pick-ups/game

ilikecharlene

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if used to complement existing game, i don't see the issue. if it's one's ONLY game, then yeah it's sad/loserish.

I've met 2 women off Facebook, nothing developed in the long-term, but they remain good friends. the key is to pique their attention at the start, stand out and be bold when making contact, and things can pan out good. :rock:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ilikecharlene said:
if used to complement existing game, i don't see the issue. if it's one's ONLY game, then yeah it's sad/loserish.

I've met 2 women off Facebook, nothing developed in the long-term, but they remain good friends. the key is to pique their attention at the start, stand out and be bold when making contact, and things can pan out good. :rock:
I've tried in the past..when you say be bold when making contact what do you mean?
 

ilikecharlene

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making a message that stands out and compels a response. no **** like "damn, you're hot!" or "want to go out sometime?"
 
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