"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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naluholo

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Man, it takes a lot more than you seem to be realizing. Someone suggests Muay Thai and you're worried about getting close range with a grappler?

You want to compete in MMA. Take muay thai. Take jujitsu. BOTH. You'll strike until you have an opening, then strike as you use that opening to perform a throw. Anyways, if you're going to be going against grapplers, you need to know how to fight in close range. Otherwise, when they get a hand on you you're fvked.

Learning to grapple or box well is going to take a lot of time in itself. And you don't just learn a submission hold or joint lock either -- that's easy. Anyone can learn them. Finding the openings or the opportunities to use these techniques is the hard part. While you're looking for the chance to do an armbar, he (or she) could be kickin' your ass. Training to the point where you have a technique for every opening takes some time. Then you have to train for defending the counters to your techniques and learn what to transition to when the opponent counters. You have to learn escapes and counters yourself for when the opponent gets a jump on you. And you need to know them like the back of your hand. You don't have time to think in a fight - a good blood choke can take you out in a matter of seconds.

All of that is only for ground work. Think about it, you have to be able to get your opponent to the ground. This means getting your opponent off balance without being off balance yourself. You can't do that with boxing alone - how many times do good boxers fall in a fight? Not many. You can't just use strength, ask someone who practices jujitsu what he thinks about someone who fights with strength... They'll tell you that's when it's the most fun(ny). Man, you've got years of training ahead of you before you can compete successfully. years and years. It's not a matter of "doing" boxing, "doing" MT, or "doing" that submission grappling ken shamrock did.

Having said all this: Good luck. If you want to do it, go for it. I'm not trying to be an ass, but you seemed to be misunderstanding quite a few things when it comes to fighting, especially when it comes to fighting well trained people. But again, Good luck.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Saine

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Lol, you're an *******.

Who said I was worried about getting close range with a grappler?

I will take whatever I can, not whatever you think I can. Apparently in NY/NC, there's no good ring.

I know how to fight as a fighter, the basic concept, no need to repeat.
 

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Oh =) I must have missed that. You know the basic concepts of fighting. That's all you need. Sorry =)
 

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Saine, what you should focus on in terms of striking arts are either, boxing or muay thai. In regards to grappling, do BJJ. Be sure to practice them both because you'll need them.

In the course of practicing both striking and grappling disciplines, you'll find out that just because you may be in shape to grapple, doesnt mean that youre in shape to do stand up striking at a guy or vice versa. Both grappling and striking requires a different type of breathing and stamina so it's important that you cross train.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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