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Been spinning a few plates the last 2 months - 3 or 4 to be precise - one of them being my ex of 1 year- we were casual hooking up sort of a FWB thing
One of these plates I feel would be a good match for me, great s*x, meets all criteria, red flags minimal and all issues highlighted across this forum are few and far between with this woman...I have screened her for a couple of months and fairly confident of this (of course not too confident)
She give me the 'exclusive' talk, i agreed and decided to drop remaining plates and focus entirely on her. Things are going well, and yesterday she has invited me over to stay the week at her place as her parents are away. I spoke to my ex and explained to her things had to come to and end in terms of FWB and we couldn't speak or see each other anymore, blocked and deleted everything....
The girl I'm seeing now - We have sex frequent and never had any issues previously, always shown her a good time and very experimental etc, however, last night I struggled physically, I kept having like mental images of my ex and couldn't seem to shake her out of my mind, very strange for me as I've never had this issue before and it has kind of freaked me out because I don't want to ruin this thing just as it is starting.....
Has anyone been through anything similar? Was very very weird.
Been spinning a few plates the last 2 months - 3 or 4 to be precise - one of them being my ex of 1 year- we were casual hooking up sort of a FWB thing
One of these plates I feel would be a good match for me, great s*x, meets all criteria, red flags minimal and all issues highlighted across this forum are few and far between with this woman...I have screened her for a couple of months and fairly confident of this (of course not too confident)
She give me the 'exclusive' talk, i agreed and decided to drop remaining plates and focus entirely on her. Things are going well, and yesterday she has invited me over to stay the week at her place as her parents are away. I spoke to my ex and explained to her things had to come to and end in terms of FWB and we couldn't speak or see each other anymore, blocked and deleted everything....
The girl I'm seeing now - We have sex frequent and never had any issues previously, always shown her a good time and very experimental etc, however, last night I struggled physically, I kept having like mental images of my ex and couldn't seem to shake her out of my mind, very strange for me as I've never had this issue before and it has kind of freaked me out because I don't want to ruin this thing just as it is starting.....
Has anyone been through anything similar? Was very very weird.