Mixed up signals

[johnathon_123]

Hey

So, I have been gaming this chick for.. not to long. She seems interested, but also *maybe* in a few other guys (right, its cool for her to play the field, like anyone else) Warning sign to ditch her, but I'll figure it out on my own.

So yeah, shes been inviting me to stuff, we have had a good time. She has practically begged me to go a few times. Sitting next to me in scary movies "just in case she needs to hold someones hand" things like that... I was at her parents house several days ago, and her mom said "hey, john you can sit in here with the ladies (it was her, her sister, and another cool girl) or you can go with the guys to the store if you would like" The girl of interest, samantha, said "nah, he likes it with the ladies" I took it as a sign of interest.

Anyway, everything was cool, you know the drill... till it goes bad.

Maybe.

Yesterday morning, I txted her. I had nothing going on at the time, figured I would say hi.

Me: Hey samantha whats up?
her: at the lake swimming, you?
Me: Nothing really going on here
her: What a bum... I am busy the rest of the day. Hanging out with some girls tonight.
Me: Thats cool. I like hanging out with girls too
Her: Sorry, you can't come.
Me: Aww... so your gonna make me miss out on all the hot girls?
Her: Yeah! Sorry punk!
Me: Now I am sad
Her: why not chill with some friends tonight?
Me: Good idea, my guy friends are sorta hot, makes up for the lack of hot chicks

No reply.

Ok- so I am not exactly cool that she automatically assumed I was trying to hook up with her, saying that shes busy all night. However, it seems like I caught her at a bad time. But overall, did I bomb this?

The main reason I decided to text her, was because she is the one always texting. Figured I'd show initiative and chase after something I want for once, rather than sit back... and not chase.

 

[johnathon_123]

You did try to build attraction more than most people would using text, but it came off as desperate and somewhat of a loner.

Oh... but I am desperate and a loner!

Nah, jk. My social life is fine, I think.


Can someone point out how a girl might interpret my texts then??

 

[sexy_kuta]

lmfao
she laughed and thinks you are a fool for your last text.
first sign was "What a bum... I am busy the rest of the day. Hanging out with some girls tonight."

when you didnt even ASK her out or ask what she was doing.
that is the first sign of, dont push push to hard.
should have left it as that. remember, try to game girls only when you WITH them. ACTIONS OVER WORDS.

texting/phone calls. ALL that ****, cut it down, real down. save it only to setup dates.

your last text made her laugh thats why she didnt reply back.

what you need to do? is become aloof, stop chasing her, let her come to u now. she will wonder "why isnt he calling me or texting me anymore like he used to? maybe he found someone better?" she will become curious.
you gotta STAY ontop, right now you're not ontop

 

[oakraiderz2]

In MY OPINION...she doesnt like you. Youre comical attempts were shot down. Look for other targets.