"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mixed signals...PLEASE READ!

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toddC

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Okay, so me and thisgirl hookuped twice already. I went to Florida for vacation and we've been texting. 1 night her text to me was when I asked how hernight was she responded...sucked betterif you were here. Then last nite I waslike I'm coming home firday! and shes likeOMG thats so long I miss you! However the days in between she suddenly doesn't answer soem text messages and just kinda leaves me hanging. Does this mean anything?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tyte3

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maybe shes just busy...or waiting for you to call her...or maybe shes trying to seem busy
 
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Damian

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Stop thinking so hard. These aren't signals at all. She's probably just getting her own life on, just like you should. Enjoy your vacation and hook back up afterwards. There's no point in worrying.

-Damian
 
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dont text .... u lose all frame control and u cant plow trough on issues .

at the same time chicks rate that u not being a cheap skate and are serious about them

5 buck phone call to hook a perfect day 2 is better than a wasted 50c on no day 2 and eventual dissapointment
 
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hmm i think that raises an interesting question, is text messaging that big of a deal? If anything, I believe that text messaging used sparingly would mark you as more of a prize because it would indicate how you have other priorities instead of calling the girl and wasting your time.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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Look. I thought I had a unique problem. I guess not.

When I saw this and another post... it amazed me how semi-alike they are.

Heres a background that shows where I'm coming from, okay?

Ive been talking to this girl for a while (never dated). She gave up on me once, and we made up... after we made up, things got really good, better than before. Alright, two days after we made up I had to leave for FL... and I was all "I really wanna see you before I go... pls pls pls." She wanted to to, but she couldn't at the time and responded with "Don't worry! I'll be here still. We don't need to rush things." ... I knew she was busy... especially when I was gone, I knew she had stuff to do. So we were lucky for that... the time to do things on our own. Now in FL, this is the FIRST time we talked everyday for a week at night *on the phone*. We missed each other and we told each other, even though we never even kissed or hugged (no kidding).

Long story short... we knew each other had other things to do than to talk to each other. You need to trust her, and give her her space. You obviously came off as a needy guy just now.


Tell me what you think of my advice.
 
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