"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mixed Signals? Me Too!

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Talk about mixed signals. This girl is my siamese twin when she sees me...at first it was like this...but I pretty much play it right-have a good time with her but show you don't need her, abruptly leave during convos-and leave her wanting more...well until now.

Then she exchanges nbrs with a guy right in front of me.

and another time-I read this in another post, so I guess it's a tactic-starts to flirt with another guy (who has nothing on me so I'm like...huh?) and pretty much ignores me (I'm sitting right in front of her and she doesn't see me, but the day before my hand was glued to her @$$...explain this to me?) except for glances to see how im reacting, and my reaction is pretty much non-existent except for a "Huh?" stare...She thinks she is making me pay with her bull**** games for not making a move before I guess, cuz' honestly, I wasn't interested at first...and when I call her she doesn't call back, in a bid to see how many times I will call her I'm guessing. Shiet. But uh...I think I'm gonna' skip this one. If I ignore her I gotta' feeling she will react someway, but I'm at the point of being rude with her cuz' I'm tired of it. What do you guys suggest?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Grey Fox

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Tell her that you two should just be friends. That you enjoy her company and that she has become like a sister to you. Then make sure she sees you flirting with other women giving your attention away so easily to them.

Two things are going to happen:
1. Being put in the LJBZ and being considered no longer attractive will take her down a peg or two. Also as a woman she will be unable to accept that her beauty and "charm" are unable to work on you.

2. It will drive her nuts that you are giving away your attention to other women so easily and when she tries to get some attention, all she gets is no reaction.

Make sure she knows just what exactly a DJ is, do not hide that you can attract women. Make sure she knows that you are not some poor dope on a quest to win her love or some such nonsense. Make sure she understands that you are the prize and that she had better work to win you over or be ready to move over when the competition comes running for you.

-Grey Fox
 

bludb0i

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If i were you i wouldn't next her yet. They could just be tactics of hers. Who knows, who cares. Don't show her any signs that you care. I would still try to hit on her, and get some. But while youre working on her find some more girls to work on to and don't get attached to this chick. It would be a plus to hit on other women in front of her too.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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