"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mixed Signals? Me Too!

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Talk about mixed signals. This girl is my siamese twin when she sees me...at first it was like this...but I pretty much play it right-have a good time with her but show you don't need her, abruptly leave during convos-and leave her wanting more...well until now.

Then she exchanges nbrs with a guy right in front of me.

and another time-I read this in another post, so I guess it's a tactic-starts to flirt with another guy (who has nothing on me so I'm like...huh?) and pretty much ignores me (I'm sitting right in front of her and she doesn't see me, but the day before my hand was glued to her @$$...explain this to me?) except for glances to see how im reacting, and my reaction is pretty much non-existent except for a "Huh?" stare...She thinks she is making me pay with her bull**** games for not making a move before I guess, cuz' honestly, I wasn't interested at first...and when I call her she doesn't call back, in a bid to see how many times I will call her I'm guessing. Shiet. But uh...I think I'm gonna' skip this one. If I ignore her I gotta' feeling she will react someway, but I'm at the point of being rude with her cuz' I'm tired of it. What do you guys suggest?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Grey Fox

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Tell her that you two should just be friends. That you enjoy her company and that she has become like a sister to you. Then make sure she sees you flirting with other women giving your attention away so easily to them.

Two things are going to happen:
1. Being put in the LJBZ and being considered no longer attractive will take her down a peg or two. Also as a woman she will be unable to accept that her beauty and "charm" are unable to work on you.

2. It will drive her nuts that you are giving away your attention to other women so easily and when she tries to get some attention, all she gets is no reaction.

Make sure she knows just what exactly a DJ is, do not hide that you can attract women. Make sure she knows that you are not some poor dope on a quest to win her love or some such nonsense. Make sure she understands that you are the prize and that she had better work to win you over or be ready to move over when the competition comes running for you.

-Grey Fox
 

bludb0i

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If i were you i wouldn't next her yet. They could just be tactics of hers. Who knows, who cares. Don't show her any signs that you care. I would still try to hit on her, and get some. But while youre working on her find some more girls to work on to and don't get attached to this chick. It would be a plus to hit on other women in front of her too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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