"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anpha

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situation:
- matched 18 year old girl on tinder
- doesn’t use phone much, 12 hour replies constantly
- large gaps between texting, but sends like 10+ messages at a time
- interest level seems moderate
- claimed to be busy and flaked the day before date (exam and finals period)

Am I overthinking or displaying signs of oneitis cause I feel like i’m getting run around. The 12 hour replies are honestly abnornal and ****ty but I think I want to give it a chance. She flaked a day before first date because of upcoming exams and study load. Played it off cool and suggested another time, as I want to give it one more chance.

Am I right for doing this? She’s told me to wait till her exams are done or some bs. From what i’ve read on sosuave and my general intuition I feel I shouldn’t wait on woman in general, but this could be legit. What would you do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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attention wh0re with low IL in you. Next.
 
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If you really want to, hit her up when the exams period stops with a simple "Hey i'm going to (insert some place here) on Tuesday wanna join me"?. She says yes, sweet you got yourself a date, she says no don't contact her again simple as.
 
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Thanks for the advice guys. I knew it would be bad to focus attention on this one chick, but it’s someone different than I usually date (quite younger, also unexperienced). Will hit up other chicks/study and hit her up after exams.
 
devilkingx2

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Anpha said:
situation:
- matched 18 year old girl on tinder
- doesn’t use phone much, 12 hour replies constantly
- large gaps between texting, but sends like 10+ messages at a time
- interest level seems moderate
- claimed to be busy and flaked the day before date (exam and finals period)
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18 year olds aren't busy
18 year olds use their phone all day
people who don't use their phone much would meet guys in a coffee shop, not on a phone app.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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marmel75

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Should not have suggested a time immediately...would have waited a week or do of you went thst route.

Stop thinking about her and start finding and dating other women. Stop being lazy.
 
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