"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mission #1

everywomanshero

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I have to decided to suggest a series of missions guys can do. I have tried to make them very applicable and useful, but in some cases you won't see the reason why you do them until it;'s already complete. (if you already read my previous post related to this, here is a clearer explanation without all my own personal obversations and biases).

Mission #1:

Find 6 advertisements from a magazine that appeals to women such as COSMO

See if you can find any of the following

1) Appeal to or creation of needs.. love, status, aesthetics, safety, security, etc.

2) social or prestige suggestion.. like you should buy something because others do or the ad suggest a famous (or expert) person does.

3) loaded words and images... attractive people?, images of positive social situations? buzzwords.

Then do the same with male magazine ads. Compare and contrast the differences. What is going on here? Feel free to post questions or observations, but each person should do the exercise before reading any comments.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LA_Chico

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this sounds like s hit I did for a class at Cal-State Fullerton bro!

BTW, GO TITANS!
 

ValleyDJing

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LA_Chico said:
this sounds like s hit I did for a class at Cal-State Fullerton bro!

BTW, GO TITANS!
No offense, but do you say "bro" in every single post you make?
 
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