"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mission #1

everywomanshero

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I have to decided to suggest a series of missions guys can do. I have tried to make them very applicable and useful, but in some cases you won't see the reason why you do them until it;'s already complete. (if you already read my previous post related to this, here is a clearer explanation without all my own personal obversations and biases).

Mission #1:

Find 6 advertisements from a magazine that appeals to women such as COSMO

See if you can find any of the following

1) Appeal to or creation of needs.. love, status, aesthetics, safety, security, etc.

2) social or prestige suggestion.. like you should buy something because others do or the ad suggest a famous (or expert) person does.

3) loaded words and images... attractive people?, images of positive social situations? buzzwords.

Then do the same with male magazine ads. Compare and contrast the differences. What is going on here? Feel free to post questions or observations, but each person should do the exercise before reading any comments.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LA_Chico

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this sounds like s hit I did for a class at Cal-State Fullerton bro!

BTW, GO TITANS!
 

ValleyDJing

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LA_Chico said:
this sounds like s hit I did for a class at Cal-State Fullerton bro!

BTW, GO TITANS!
No offense, but do you say "bro" in every single post you make?
 
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