Epic
Senior Don Juan
I've found a solution to most of the things that bother me, but there is one that I can't seem to shake. Now I've gotten past AFCness, I've dated my share of women, and I'm on the right track as far as my life is concerned. I have a wonderful girlfriend that I love and might end up marrying one day depending on how things go. I know some of you don't approve of that, but to each his own. Anyway, our relationship is healthy. We give each other space, we have a lot in common, I don't put her up on a pedastal, if she does something I don't like I let her know and vis versa. We're happy and the closest we have ever been, but lately when she's not around I miss her sometimes, although it's not in a needy, longing kind of way. Like when I'm off doing something and having a good time, I think about her not being there and how much more fun it would be if she was, then I feel just a little disappointed that she's not. I mean I don't dwell on it I just quit thinking about it and then I don't feel that way anymore, but those thoughts come up every now and then and I've never had thoughts like that before even during my AFC days. I know it's not any AFC tendencies coming back because I'm happy, I love where I'm at in my life and I'm not afraid of losing her, I know she's not going anywhere because I keep her interested. I'm just wondering for you guys who have been in a healthy serious relationship, is it normal to miss them a little sometimes? I'm just curious.