"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Missed a girls call

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harkkam08

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I just got a number from a girl in my class. She just called but I missed her call I never called her before. Should I call her back today or call her tomorrow?

I like her,I wanna see where I can take this.

I was thinking I should wait to call her back. Im not really in the mood to make like chit chat. Plus she might talk to me about school work and lol I havent looked at it. SO i thought Id call her tomorrow when Ive looked at it so she doesnt think im a total dumbass
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CantTouchMyStyle

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Why are you wasting server space with this thread?

SHE CALLED YOU.

Call her back whenever the fvck u want.
 
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jophil28

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Call her back - she called you and she deserves a return . Forget the mindgames . Waiting till tomorrow is not going to work in your favor because you have not created high enough value YET.
Waiting till tomorrow is more likely to portray you as a slacker and a dumbass who does not have his act together.
 
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harkkam08

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Thanks man. yeah i had a gut feeling that since IL was not high enough it wouldnt come off as right but I just wasnt sure.

I called but she didnt pick up. didnt leave a msg.

I shouldnt txt her right?

My gut says not to, it comes off as too pleasing by saying "Sorry i missed your call I was busy"

Is it on her now to call me back?

Feels like phone tag
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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the305

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Please STOP with the mind games. If you missed a call from one of your buddies, act the SAME exact way.
 
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harkkam08 said:
Thanks man. yeah i had a gut feeling that since IL was not high enough it wouldnt come off as right but I just wasnt sure.

I called but she didnt pick up. didnt leave a msg.

I shouldnt txt her right?

My gut says not to, it comes off as too pleasing by saying "Sorry i missed your call I was busy"

Is it on her now to call me back?

Feels like phone tag
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It's called COMMON COURTESY.
If someone calls you, you call THEM BACK.

Jesus Christ.

DON'T text her. I swear some of these people really should be required to read the DJ Bible before they sign up.

So what if it's phone tag, at least she's CALLING.
 
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CuriousGirl

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I'm not one to judge but it seems like you are reading some of these tips but not understanding them or putting them in the right context.
 
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From the tone and mention of homework I think this guy needs the HS DJB.
Could be a freshy in college tho.
 
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