"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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harkkam08

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I just got a number from a girl in my class. She just called but I missed her call I never called her before. Should I call her back today or call her tomorrow?

I like her,I wanna see where I can take this.

I was thinking I should wait to call her back. Im not really in the mood to make like chit chat. Plus she might talk to me about school work and lol I havent looked at it. SO i thought Id call her tomorrow when Ive looked at it so she doesnt think im a total dumbass
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CantTouchMyStyle

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Why are you wasting server space with this thread?

SHE CALLED YOU.

Call her back whenever the fvck u want.
 
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jophil28

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Call her back - she called you and she deserves a return . Forget the mindgames . Waiting till tomorrow is not going to work in your favor because you have not created high enough value YET.
Waiting till tomorrow is more likely to portray you as a slacker and a dumbass who does not have his act together.
 
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Thanks man. yeah i had a gut feeling that since IL was not high enough it wouldnt come off as right but I just wasnt sure.

I called but she didnt pick up. didnt leave a msg.

I shouldnt txt her right?

My gut says not to, it comes off as too pleasing by saying "Sorry i missed your call I was busy"

Is it on her now to call me back?

Feels like phone tag
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Please STOP with the mind games. If you missed a call from one of your buddies, act the SAME exact way.
 
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harkkam08 said:
Thanks man. yeah i had a gut feeling that since IL was not high enough it wouldnt come off as right but I just wasnt sure.

I called but she didnt pick up. didnt leave a msg.

I shouldnt txt her right?

My gut says not to, it comes off as too pleasing by saying "Sorry i missed your call I was busy"

Is it on her now to call me back?

Feels like phone tag
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It's called COMMON COURTESY.
If someone calls you, you call THEM BACK.

Jesus Christ.

DON'T text her. I swear some of these people really should be required to read the DJ Bible before they sign up.

So what if it's phone tag, at least she's CALLING.
 
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CuriousGirl

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I'm not one to judge but it seems like you are reading some of these tips but not understanding them or putting them in the right context.
 
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From the tone and mention of homework I think this guy needs the HS DJB.
Could be a freshy in college tho.
 
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