You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You actually talk about this load of wank with your mates?CLOONEY said:Whats the difference talking about this to your mates, or talking about it on the net?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
asdMicrophone Fiend said:are you REALLY discussing beauty paegants online
He probobly just wanted to see beautiful women. Thats the only reason I watch it sometimesMicrophone Fiend said:are you REALLY discussing beauty paegants online
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yap Yap, and every 2nd post of yours is hanging from my nuts b!tching and moaning, As much as I dont mind my own groupies its bordering on being a bit fruity when its a guy, wake up to yourself Liberace.diplomatic_lies said:^^^
Hey t!tboy, why do all your posts reek of bitterness? It seems every 2nd post you make is a whine about...well, everything.
Personally, I thought Miss Australia was cool, despite the fact she's from Queensland.
I would have picked you for the type who brings out the popcorn when this estrogen fuelled sh!t stinks up the T.V, but youve proved me wrong, well done, you might not be a lost cause after all.spider_007 said:i watched it - for like 10 seconds.
I just thought the girls ware ugly.
don't get me wrong i'd fvck them all if I had the chance, but i see girls in reall life who are more "butifull" then those.
and on top of that they say; "i wanna change the world, by helping poor people" OH GIVE ME A FVCKING BREAK. What a fvcking joke. When did one of those ever change "the world" (other then the publicity stunts.)