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Of course I'd bang her, I'd bang her if she had a 3 inch wide mole on her forehead...just sick of "OMG SOOO HOT MAN"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
cordoncordon said:I don't think anyone is saying she is the end all and be all of women. And actually she did come out and say that the broadcaster should not be blamed one bit for what he said. She actually praised him. She also said all of this attention should be on the Alabama team and not her.
As for her using the attention for charity? Cmon man. What is she supposed to do? Im sure she isn't super wealthy. She is a young woman trying to establish herself in the world. She didnt ask for any of this attention. It was shoveled on her. What is she supposed to do? Say no to the interview requests? The job offers? The Sports Illustrated swimsuit offer? Would you?
I'm just saying that you guys are going overboard with the criticisms of her looks. I can promise you that if this girl came up to you at some bar and started flirted with you, you would be mentally high fiving yourself so much your arms would fall off and your stiffy would be so apparent you would look like you had a flag pole in your pants.
No, I have to say I personally wouldn't feel that way.cordoncordon said:I'm just saying that you guys are going overboard with the criticisms of her looks. I can promise you that if this girl came up to you at some bar and started flirted with you, you would be mentally high fiving yourself so much your arms would fall off and your stiffy would be so apparent you would look like you had a flag pole in your pants.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.