"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Miss Katherine Webb.

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Of course I'd bang her, I'd bang her if she had a 3 inch wide mole on her forehead...just sick of "OMG SOOO HOT MAN"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Given the opportunity, of course I would bang her. My (and others) point is that she is not the hottest walking vagina on this planet. Her viral exposure has absolutely nothing to do with anything. The QB could have been dating some other chick and then she would have gotten all the attention. There is literally nothing special about her. She didn't cure cancer, she isn't using her attention for charity, she isn't extending a hand to the broadcaster that made her popular in the first place.
 

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I don't think anyone is saying she is the end all and be all of women. And actually she did come out and say that the broadcaster should not be blamed one bit for what he said. She actually praised him. She also said all of this attention should be on the Alabama team and not her.

As for her using the attention for charity? Cmon man. What is she supposed to do? Im sure she isn't super wealthy. She is a young woman trying to establish herself in the world. She didnt ask for any of this attention. It was shoveled on her. What is she supposed to do? Say no to the interview requests? The job offers? The Sports Illustrated swimsuit offer? Would you?

I'm just saying that you guys are going overboard with the criticisms of her looks. I can promise you that if this girl came up to you at some bar and started flirted with you, you would be mentally high fiving yourself so much your arms would fall off and your stiffy would be so apparent you would look like you had a flag pole in your pants.
 

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cordoncordon said:
I don't think anyone is saying she is the end all and be all of women. And actually she did come out and say that the broadcaster should not be blamed one bit for what he said. She actually praised him. She also said all of this attention should be on the Alabama team and not her.

As for her using the attention for charity? Cmon man. What is she supposed to do? Im sure she isn't super wealthy. She is a young woman trying to establish herself in the world. She didnt ask for any of this attention. It was shoveled on her. What is she supposed to do? Say no to the interview requests? The job offers? The Sports Illustrated swimsuit offer? Would you?

I'm just saying that you guys are going overboard with the criticisms of her looks. I can promise you that if this girl came up to you at some bar and started flirted with you, you would be mentally high fiving yourself so much your arms would fall off and your stiffy would be so apparent you would look like you had a flag pole in your pants.

EXACTLY.
 

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cordoncordon said:
I'm just saying that you guys are going overboard with the criticisms of her looks. I can promise you that if this girl came up to you at some bar and started flirted with you, you would be mentally high fiving yourself so much your arms would fall off and your stiffy would be so apparent you would look like you had a flag pole in your pants.
No, I have to say I personally wouldn't feel that way.

She has the look I really don't like... artificial and contrived. I never did prefer that type. I like a more natural woman, sort of naturally pretty but not augmented to the highest degree through putty, paint, fake teeth, etc.

It reminds me of a building facade on a movie set. All "pretty" on the outside but not real-life pretty. Real-life pretty gets my flag a-wavin'.

If most men weren't such suckers for this painted-on beauty we wouldn't be in the mess that we're in. That's not directed at you, cc, just an observation of the general societal over-valuing of form over substance.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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