"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Miss Katherine Webb.

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Of course I'd bang her, I'd bang her if she had a 3 inch wide mole on her forehead...just sick of "OMG SOOO HOT MAN"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Given the opportunity, of course I would bang her. My (and others) point is that she is not the hottest walking vagina on this planet. Her viral exposure has absolutely nothing to do with anything. The QB could have been dating some other chick and then she would have gotten all the attention. There is literally nothing special about her. She didn't cure cancer, she isn't using her attention for charity, she isn't extending a hand to the broadcaster that made her popular in the first place.
 

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I don't think anyone is saying she is the end all and be all of women. And actually she did come out and say that the broadcaster should not be blamed one bit for what he said. She actually praised him. She also said all of this attention should be on the Alabama team and not her.

As for her using the attention for charity? Cmon man. What is she supposed to do? Im sure she isn't super wealthy. She is a young woman trying to establish herself in the world. She didnt ask for any of this attention. It was shoveled on her. What is she supposed to do? Say no to the interview requests? The job offers? The Sports Illustrated swimsuit offer? Would you?

I'm just saying that you guys are going overboard with the criticisms of her looks. I can promise you that if this girl came up to you at some bar and started flirted with you, you would be mentally high fiving yourself so much your arms would fall off and your stiffy would be so apparent you would look like you had a flag pole in your pants.
 

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cordoncordon said:
I don't think anyone is saying she is the end all and be all of women. And actually she did come out and say that the broadcaster should not be blamed one bit for what he said. She actually praised him. She also said all of this attention should be on the Alabama team and not her.

As for her using the attention for charity? Cmon man. What is she supposed to do? Im sure she isn't super wealthy. She is a young woman trying to establish herself in the world. She didnt ask for any of this attention. It was shoveled on her. What is she supposed to do? Say no to the interview requests? The job offers? The Sports Illustrated swimsuit offer? Would you?

I'm just saying that you guys are going overboard with the criticisms of her looks. I can promise you that if this girl came up to you at some bar and started flirted with you, you would be mentally high fiving yourself so much your arms would fall off and your stiffy would be so apparent you would look like you had a flag pole in your pants.

EXACTLY.
 

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cordoncordon said:
I'm just saying that you guys are going overboard with the criticisms of her looks. I can promise you that if this girl came up to you at some bar and started flirted with you, you would be mentally high fiving yourself so much your arms would fall off and your stiffy would be so apparent you would look like you had a flag pole in your pants.
No, I have to say I personally wouldn't feel that way.

She has the look I really don't like... artificial and contrived. I never did prefer that type. I like a more natural woman, sort of naturally pretty but not augmented to the highest degree through putty, paint, fake teeth, etc.

It reminds me of a building facade on a movie set. All "pretty" on the outside but not real-life pretty. Real-life pretty gets my flag a-wavin'.

If most men weren't such suckers for this painted-on beauty we wouldn't be in the mess that we're in. That's not directed at you, cc, just an observation of the general societal over-valuing of form over substance.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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