Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Mismatched couples: What do you think?

betterthandead

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Sometimes you see a skinny/skinnier guy with a fat girl. Sometimes you see a gay looking/emo/goth guy with a hot girl. Sometimes you see a nice looking girl going out with a loser.

What goes on in your mind when you see a seemingly mismatched couple?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Opposites attract.
 

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betterthandead said:
Sometimes you see a skinny/skinnier guy with a fat girl. Sometimes you see a gay looking/emo/goth guy with a hot girl. Sometimes you see a nice looking girl going out with a loser.

What goes on in your mind when you see a seemingly mismatched couple?
"If he was able to pull that off, I sure can do much better." :D
 

AKA FLEX

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I don't think much of it. Different strokes for different folks. I just concentrate on my own pousse.
 

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I used to think about it, and be like "man what does that girl see in him, I am such a better guy, therefore she should be noticing me" But that was when I was AFC. I still had the mentality, that girls would love me so as long as they got to know the real me and how nice I could be.

Wow, so glad I am not that AFC guy I used to be. Now I see mismatched couples where a hot girl is with who seems to be a goofy guy and realize that obviously that guy had the confidence, prowess, and overall DJism to get that girl, and I realize that for the most part I should either learn from it or at least respect it. I used to think that the girl didn't know how cute/hot she was. Now I realize that the guy is probably at least a pretty good DJ and she would rather have that, than a better looking AFC. It actually gives me motivation, because If I am more attractive then the guy, and I fell like my DJ skills are better, than thoeretically I could steal his girl(even if I don't pursue it) or get a hotter one.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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