"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mismatched couples: What do you think?

betterthandead

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Sometimes you see a skinny/skinnier guy with a fat girl. Sometimes you see a gay looking/emo/goth guy with a hot girl. Sometimes you see a nice looking girl going out with a loser.

What goes on in your mind when you see a seemingly mismatched couple?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Opposites attract.
 

drtk

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betterthandead said:
Sometimes you see a skinny/skinnier guy with a fat girl. Sometimes you see a gay looking/emo/goth guy with a hot girl. Sometimes you see a nice looking girl going out with a loser.

What goes on in your mind when you see a seemingly mismatched couple?
"If he was able to pull that off, I sure can do much better." :D
 

AKA FLEX

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I don't think much of it. Different strokes for different folks. I just concentrate on my own pousse.
 

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I used to think about it, and be like "man what does that girl see in him, I am such a better guy, therefore she should be noticing me" But that was when I was AFC. I still had the mentality, that girls would love me so as long as they got to know the real me and how nice I could be.

Wow, so glad I am not that AFC guy I used to be. Now I see mismatched couples where a hot girl is with who seems to be a goofy guy and realize that obviously that guy had the confidence, prowess, and overall DJism to get that girl, and I realize that for the most part I should either learn from it or at least respect it. I used to think that the girl didn't know how cute/hot she was. Now I realize that the guy is probably at least a pretty good DJ and she would rather have that, than a better looking AFC. It actually gives me motivation, because If I am more attractive then the guy, and I fell like my DJ skills are better, than thoeretically I could steal his girl(even if I don't pursue it) or get a hotter one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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