Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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misconception about 'using girls'

OregonDuckJuan

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I was reading in a different thread some guy going off about it 'disgusting him' that men use women for sex.

This is quite possibly one of the biggest misconceptions around. Women choose to have sex with you or not. If you have a One night stand it is equally the girl 'using' you as it is you 'using' her.

By the way, using the word 'using' is a bit outdated.

Women are just as horny as men, and pretending that women are this innocent, sweet little thing that get devoured by hungry wolves is wrong. Sex is sex and it gets built up way too much around here. No one is using anyone. It takes two to tango, and the sooner people learn that women are more deceptive and manipulative than men, the better. No, I am not being a woman-basher. I have respect for women, however, I am not delusional about their desires (and what women will do to meet those desires) and intentions--subtle or not.

The point gets summed up in this clip from Entourage (also providing a brief comedic break for you all):


http://youtube.com/watch?v=EXNPqAkW4F0
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ViciousDADogg

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Absolutely!!

I'll also add, that those that say "using" are a tad jelous.
 
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