"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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misconception about 'using girls'

OregonDuckJuan

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I was reading in a different thread some guy going off about it 'disgusting him' that men use women for sex.

This is quite possibly one of the biggest misconceptions around. Women choose to have sex with you or not. If you have a One night stand it is equally the girl 'using' you as it is you 'using' her.

By the way, using the word 'using' is a bit outdated.

Women are just as horny as men, and pretending that women are this innocent, sweet little thing that get devoured by hungry wolves is wrong. Sex is sex and it gets built up way too much around here. No one is using anyone. It takes two to tango, and the sooner people learn that women are more deceptive and manipulative than men, the better. No, I am not being a woman-basher. I have respect for women, however, I am not delusional about their desires (and what women will do to meet those desires) and intentions--subtle or not.

The point gets summed up in this clip from Entourage (also providing a brief comedic break for you all):


http://youtube.com/watch?v=EXNPqAkW4F0
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ViciousDADogg

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Absolutely!!

I'll also add, that those that say "using" are a tad jelous.
 
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