"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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misconception about 'using girls'

OregonDuckJuan

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I was reading in a different thread some guy going off about it 'disgusting him' that men use women for sex.

This is quite possibly one of the biggest misconceptions around. Women choose to have sex with you or not. If you have a One night stand it is equally the girl 'using' you as it is you 'using' her.

By the way, using the word 'using' is a bit outdated.

Women are just as horny as men, and pretending that women are this innocent, sweet little thing that get devoured by hungry wolves is wrong. Sex is sex and it gets built up way too much around here. No one is using anyone. It takes two to tango, and the sooner people learn that women are more deceptive and manipulative than men, the better. No, I am not being a woman-basher. I have respect for women, however, I am not delusional about their desires (and what women will do to meet those desires) and intentions--subtle or not.

The point gets summed up in this clip from Entourage (also providing a brief comedic break for you all):


http://youtube.com/watch?v=EXNPqAkW4F0
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ViciousDADogg

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Absolutely!!

I'll also add, that those that say "using" are a tad jelous.
 
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