ForAllThat
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What do you do if a girl is constantly mirroring your questions? It's really hard to have a conversation about her, since this girl is constantly asking me same questions that I ask her 
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Mirroring me
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Listen to her response, and repeat what she says in a question format. For example.
You: Where are you from?
Her: Miami
You:
(A)Is it true alligators lounge around the streets in Miami? *smile*
(B)I've never been there. I've always wanted to go. How is it out there?
(C)Ahh...Miami. The place where everyone looks like they've auditioning for Baywatch. *laughs*
(D): Miami? How about them *Miami sports team*?
There's hundreds of responses you could do from a response she gave you. Make sure you do the three second rule where you pause before responding back so you don't interrupt while she's talking and it shows her that you're listening. Eye contact is important. Look into her eyes 90% of the time and no where else while having a slight smile on your face. I don't care if half her boobs are showing, eye contact is important.
Just feed off her response by asking questions so she can elaborate on a certain topic.
You: Where are you from?
Her: Miami
You:
(A)Is it true alligators lounge around the streets in Miami? *smile*
(B)I've never been there. I've always wanted to go. How is it out there?
(C)Ahh...Miami. The place where everyone looks like they've auditioning for Baywatch. *laughs*
(D): Miami? How about them *Miami sports team*?
There's hundreds of responses you could do from a response she gave you. Make sure you do the three second rule where you pause before responding back so you don't interrupt while she's talking and it shows her that you're listening. Eye contact is important. Look into her eyes 90% of the time and no where else while having a slight smile on your face. I don't care if half her boobs are showing, eye contact is important.
Just feed off her response by asking questions so she can elaborate on a certain topic.
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Don Juan
No, it's not like that. I know what ForAllThat means. There are some girls that are weird and do this. Here is an example of such a conversation:
You: Where are you from?
Her: Where are you from?
You: What's your name?
Her: What's your name?
You: What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
Her: What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
You: What music/TV/movies do you like?
Her: What music/TV/movies do you like?
These girls are weird and either do this because they get off on being annoying and weird or because they have some mental issues.
Regardless of their reasons, I would avoid them, and when you encounter such a situation, blow them off, possibly with a c*cky insult, and get out of the situation as quickly as possible.
You: Where are you from?
Her: Where are you from?
You: What's your name?
Her: What's your name?
You: What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
Her: What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
You: What music/TV/movies do you like?
Her: What music/TV/movies do you like?
These girls are weird and either do this because they get off on being annoying and weird or because they have some mental issues.
Regardless of their reasons, I would avoid them, and when you encounter such a situation, blow them off, possibly with a c*cky insult, and get out of the situation as quickly as possible.
ForAllThat
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No she will actually answer the question, and THEN ask the same question to me. Even if I continue the topic she will keep asking the question until I answer it
she's probably nervous, take it easy on her, maybe her conversational skills aren't up to par. Maybe try making some statements and opening up about yourself a little (but not tooooo much...be mysterious) and throwing out some positive energy and she can jump on the bandwagon with you when you are feeling more comfortable.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.