ForAllThat
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What do you do if a girl is constantly mirroring your questions? It's really hard to have a conversation about her, since this girl is constantly asking me same questions that I ask her 
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Mirroring me
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Listen to her response, and repeat what she says in a question format. For example.
You: Where are you from?
Her: Miami
You:
(A)Is it true alligators lounge around the streets in Miami? *smile*
(B)I've never been there. I've always wanted to go. How is it out there?
(C)Ahh...Miami. The place where everyone looks like they've auditioning for Baywatch. *laughs*
(D): Miami? How about them *Miami sports team*?
There's hundreds of responses you could do from a response she gave you. Make sure you do the three second rule where you pause before responding back so you don't interrupt while she's talking and it shows her that you're listening. Eye contact is important. Look into her eyes 90% of the time and no where else while having a slight smile on your face. I don't care if half her boobs are showing, eye contact is important.
Just feed off her response by asking questions so she can elaborate on a certain topic.
You: Where are you from?
Her: Miami
You:
(A)Is it true alligators lounge around the streets in Miami? *smile*
(B)I've never been there. I've always wanted to go. How is it out there?
(C)Ahh...Miami. The place where everyone looks like they've auditioning for Baywatch. *laughs*
(D): Miami? How about them *Miami sports team*?
There's hundreds of responses you could do from a response she gave you. Make sure you do the three second rule where you pause before responding back so you don't interrupt while she's talking and it shows her that you're listening. Eye contact is important. Look into her eyes 90% of the time and no where else while having a slight smile on your face. I don't care if half her boobs are showing, eye contact is important.
Just feed off her response by asking questions so she can elaborate on a certain topic.
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Don Juan
No, it's not like that. I know what ForAllThat means. There are some girls that are weird and do this. Here is an example of such a conversation:
You: Where are you from?
Her: Where are you from?
You: What's your name?
Her: What's your name?
You: What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
Her: What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
You: What music/TV/movies do you like?
Her: What music/TV/movies do you like?
These girls are weird and either do this because they get off on being annoying and weird or because they have some mental issues.
Regardless of their reasons, I would avoid them, and when you encounter such a situation, blow them off, possibly with a c*cky insult, and get out of the situation as quickly as possible.
You: Where are you from?
Her: Where are you from?
You: What's your name?
Her: What's your name?
You: What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
Her: What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
You: What music/TV/movies do you like?
Her: What music/TV/movies do you like?
These girls are weird and either do this because they get off on being annoying and weird or because they have some mental issues.
Regardless of their reasons, I would avoid them, and when you encounter such a situation, blow them off, possibly with a c*cky insult, and get out of the situation as quickly as possible.
ForAllThat
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No she will actually answer the question, and THEN ask the same question to me. Even if I continue the topic she will keep asking the question until I answer it
she's probably nervous, take it easy on her, maybe her conversational skills aren't up to par. Maybe try making some statements and opening up about yourself a little (but not tooooo much...be mysterious) and throwing out some positive energy and she can jump on the bandwagon with you when you are feeling more comfortable.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.