ForAllThat
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What do you do if a girl is constantly mirroring your questions? It's really hard to have a conversation about her, since this girl is constantly asking me same questions that I ask her 
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Listen to her response, and repeat what she says in a question format. For example.
You: Where are you from?
Her: Miami
You:
(A)Is it true alligators lounge around the streets in Miami? *smile*
(B)I've never been there. I've always wanted to go. How is it out there?
(C)Ahh...Miami. The place where everyone looks like they've auditioning for Baywatch. *laughs*
(D): Miami? How about them *Miami sports team*?
There's hundreds of responses you could do from a response she gave you. Make sure you do the three second rule where you pause before responding back so you don't interrupt while she's talking and it shows her that you're listening. Eye contact is important. Look into her eyes 90% of the time and no where else while having a slight smile on your face. I don't care if half her boobs are showing, eye contact is important.
Just feed off her response by asking questions so she can elaborate on a certain topic.
You: Where are you from?
Her: Miami
You:
(A)Is it true alligators lounge around the streets in Miami? *smile*
(B)I've never been there. I've always wanted to go. How is it out there?
(C)Ahh...Miami. The place where everyone looks like they've auditioning for Baywatch. *laughs*
(D): Miami? How about them *Miami sports team*?
There's hundreds of responses you could do from a response she gave you. Make sure you do the three second rule where you pause before responding back so you don't interrupt while she's talking and it shows her that you're listening. Eye contact is important. Look into her eyes 90% of the time and no where else while having a slight smile on your face. I don't care if half her boobs are showing, eye contact is important.
Just feed off her response by asking questions so she can elaborate on a certain topic.
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Don Juan
No, it's not like that. I know what ForAllThat means. There are some girls that are weird and do this. Here is an example of such a conversation:
You: Where are you from?
Her: Where are you from?
You: What's your name?
Her: What's your name?
You: What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
Her: What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
You: What music/TV/movies do you like?
Her: What music/TV/movies do you like?
These girls are weird and either do this because they get off on being annoying and weird or because they have some mental issues.
Regardless of their reasons, I would avoid them, and when you encounter such a situation, blow them off, possibly with a c*cky insult, and get out of the situation as quickly as possible.
You: Where are you from?
Her: Where are you from?
You: What's your name?
Her: What's your name?
You: What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
Her: What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
You: What music/TV/movies do you like?
Her: What music/TV/movies do you like?
These girls are weird and either do this because they get off on being annoying and weird or because they have some mental issues.
Regardless of their reasons, I would avoid them, and when you encounter such a situation, blow them off, possibly with a c*cky insult, and get out of the situation as quickly as possible.
ForAllThat
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No she will actually answer the question, and THEN ask the same question to me. Even if I continue the topic she will keep asking the question until I answer it
she's probably nervous, take it easy on her, maybe her conversational skills aren't up to par. Maybe try making some statements and opening up about yourself a little (but not tooooo much...be mysterious) and throwing out some positive energy and she can jump on the bandwagon with you when you are feeling more comfortable.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.