"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mirror the kisses (x's)

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When texting women, a lot of them have phone settings which makes the first letter after every particular grammatical expression (. ? !) etc, a capital letter.

For example I receive a text off a lady

Aww cool :) no this bed is actually proper uncomfy :( Xx

and i reply

Ah that sucks. xX

See what i did there? I mirrored the capitals from the kisses, this works for me, it is something thats too negligent to ask you why you are doing it, yet keeps them thinking why you are always doing it.

What do you DJ's reckon?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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unclek

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Short term if you have just acquired a girls number, and she texts you then you do regular phone game but just add that in.
 

Reckoning

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Lmao


So you're telling me that I should mirror whatever smiley face or w/e she put in a msg and build attraction by doing that?


Are you feeling alright? Bumped a head somewhere?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TrueDonJuan

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Sorry, but this is irrelevant. You shouldn't be using text messaging to communicate with a girl in any case.

You should have better things to be doing than deciding whether to 'mirror' her text kisses. Put the same amount of time into mirroring her body language, and you might start to see some results.
 

War Against Betaism

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Not saying your advice is false, but it's also incredibly insignificant in the long run.
 

trufun

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Wow this is the worst piece of ****e that has ever been posted. Dude sack up and stop "mirrowing" what girls do.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Razor Sharp

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I'm sorry but mirroring is for girls. You should be leading and having her follow you, not the other way around. Yes it's just text, but you are falling into her frame and letting her dictate the terms of your affection on a certain level.

I also have a hard time envisioning the wild success of this technique, and believe your claims to be greatly exaggerated.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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unclek said:
When texting women, a lot of them have phone settings which makes the first letter after every particular grammatical expression (. ? !) etc, a capital letter.

For example I receive a text off a lady

Aww cool :) no this bed is actually proper uncomfy :( Xx

and i reply

Ah that sucks. xX

See what i did there? I mirrored the capitals from the kisses, this works for me, it is something thats too negligent to ask you why you are doing it, yet keeps them thinking why you are always doing it.

What do you DJ's reckon?
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