"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mirror the kisses (x's)

unclek

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When texting women, a lot of them have phone settings which makes the first letter after every particular grammatical expression (. ? !) etc, a capital letter.

For example I receive a text off a lady

Aww cool :) no this bed is actually proper uncomfy :( Xx

and i reply

Ah that sucks. xX

See what i did there? I mirrored the capitals from the kisses, this works for me, it is something thats too negligent to ask you why you are doing it, yet keeps them thinking why you are always doing it.

What do you DJ's reckon?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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unclek

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Short term if you have just acquired a girls number, and she texts you then you do regular phone game but just add that in.
 

Reckoning

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Lmao


So you're telling me that I should mirror whatever smiley face or w/e she put in a msg and build attraction by doing that?


Are you feeling alright? Bumped a head somewhere?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TrueDonJuan

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Sorry, but this is irrelevant. You shouldn't be using text messaging to communicate with a girl in any case.

You should have better things to be doing than deciding whether to 'mirror' her text kisses. Put the same amount of time into mirroring her body language, and you might start to see some results.
 

War Against Betaism

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Not saying your advice is false, but it's also incredibly insignificant in the long run.
 

trufun

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Wow this is the worst piece of ****e that has ever been posted. Dude sack up and stop "mirrowing" what girls do.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Razor Sharp

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I'm sorry but mirroring is for girls. You should be leading and having her follow you, not the other way around. Yes it's just text, but you are falling into her frame and letting her dictate the terms of your affection on a certain level.

I also have a hard time envisioning the wild success of this technique, and believe your claims to be greatly exaggerated.
 

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unclek said:
When texting women, a lot of them have phone settings which makes the first letter after every particular grammatical expression (. ? !) etc, a capital letter.

For example I receive a text off a lady

Aww cool :) no this bed is actually proper uncomfy :( Xx

and i reply

Ah that sucks. xX

See what i did there? I mirrored the capitals from the kisses, this works for me, it is something thats too negligent to ask you why you are doing it, yet keeps them thinking why you are always doing it.

What do you DJ's reckon?
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