"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mirror the kisses (x's)

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When texting women, a lot of them have phone settings which makes the first letter after every particular grammatical expression (. ? !) etc, a capital letter.

For example I receive a text off a lady

Aww cool :) no this bed is actually proper uncomfy :( Xx

and i reply

Ah that sucks. xX

See what i did there? I mirrored the capitals from the kisses, this works for me, it is something thats too negligent to ask you why you are doing it, yet keeps them thinking why you are always doing it.

What do you DJ's reckon?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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unclek

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Short term if you have just acquired a girls number, and she texts you then you do regular phone game but just add that in.
 

Reckoning

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Lmao


So you're telling me that I should mirror whatever smiley face or w/e she put in a msg and build attraction by doing that?


Are you feeling alright? Bumped a head somewhere?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TrueDonJuan

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Sorry, but this is irrelevant. You shouldn't be using text messaging to communicate with a girl in any case.

You should have better things to be doing than deciding whether to 'mirror' her text kisses. Put the same amount of time into mirroring her body language, and you might start to see some results.
 

War Against Betaism

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Not saying your advice is false, but it's also incredibly insignificant in the long run.
 

trufun

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Wow this is the worst piece of ****e that has ever been posted. Dude sack up and stop "mirrowing" what girls do.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Razor Sharp

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I'm sorry but mirroring is for girls. You should be leading and having her follow you, not the other way around. Yes it's just text, but you are falling into her frame and letting her dictate the terms of your affection on a certain level.

I also have a hard time envisioning the wild success of this technique, and believe your claims to be greatly exaggerated.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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unclek said:
When texting women, a lot of them have phone settings which makes the first letter after every particular grammatical expression (. ? !) etc, a capital letter.

For example I receive a text off a lady

Aww cool :) no this bed is actually proper uncomfy :( Xx

and i reply

Ah that sucks. xX

See what i did there? I mirrored the capitals from the kisses, this works for me, it is something thats too negligent to ask you why you are doing it, yet keeps them thinking why you are always doing it.

What do you DJ's reckon?
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