Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I wonder if an old dog like me would have a chance in the Cities around all these young pups... 
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Minneapolis , Minneasota wanted
- Thread starter nan3109
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
B.J. Van Beusekom
New Member
Minneapolis DJ's
I live in the western suburbs, so I am always looking for some bro's to chill with and to hit on some ladies. drop me a line
[email protected] perhaps I'll contact oxide, buck naked, or american outlaw. Downtown is my usual destination:Refuge, Brothers, or Lone Tree.
I live in the western suburbs, so I am always looking for some bro's to chill with and to hit on some ladies. drop me a line
[email protected] perhaps I'll contact oxide, buck naked, or american outlaw. Downtown is my usual destination:Refuge, Brothers, or Lone Tree.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
BUMP
Any MPLS/SP DJs want to get together to form a wing? Oxide wants to hook up but there's a problem with some of the DJs aren't quite legal and there are those that are ummmm, very legal. Anyone have any ideas of a good sarging venue (preferably a club) where the age thing isn't an issue. Some of us are just a bit too old for 'teenie-boppers' and they wouldn't necessarily go for our 'Ben-Gay' scent...
Any MPLS/SP DJs want to get together to form a wing? Oxide wants to hook up but there's a problem with some of the DJs aren't quite legal and there are those that are ummmm, very legal. Anyone have any ideas of a good sarging venue (preferably a club) where the age thing isn't an issue. Some of us are just a bit too old for 'teenie-boppers' and they wouldn't necessarily go for our 'Ben-Gay' scent...
Hey guys... Bloomington, MN here. 27, I know the scene and am up for getting an evening or something. Just found this site a couple days ago and have been browsing a lot.
I have been to *quite* a few bars in the Minneapolis area. Just recently found Valentinos in So. St Paul and that place is happening.
Finding a place for all ages might be a bit tough. Downtown is a bit young. Eden Prairie and couple other suburbs are a bit old. Surprisingly the Mall of America has a good mix. Yeah, I know you're all groaning now... it's actually pretty happening on a Sat night.
Anyway, I'm out... hope we figure something out.
I have been to *quite* a few bars in the Minneapolis area. Just recently found Valentinos in So. St Paul and that place is happening.
Finding a place for all ages might be a bit tough. Downtown is a bit young. Eden Prairie and couple other suburbs are a bit old. Surprisingly the Mall of America has a good mix. Yeah, I know you're all groaning now... it's actually pretty happening on a Sat night.
Anyway, I'm out... hope we figure something out.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
What's the deal at Jillians at the MOA? I know that there's a age limit after a certain time. Anyone know if it's 18 or 21?
stalluproar
Senior Don Juan
New Here
Just surfing around tonight and I see there are some people in my area active on this board.
I'd be interested in hanging with all of you who take the initiative to get women, dating, and seduction handled. I live in the south metro.
Just surfing around tonight and I see there are some people in my area active on this board.
I'd be interested in hanging with all of you who take the initiative to get women, dating, and seduction handled. I live in the south metro.
l-deezy
Don Juan
yeah im back
yeah i still live in Minneapolis and i've been looking for other dj's to hang out with so leave your # and i'll check everyday and keep looking for it.
one more thing Northside!!!
yeah i still live in Minneapolis and i've been looking for other dj's to hang out with so leave your # and i'll check everyday and keep looking for it.
one more thing Northside!!!
The Brotrain
Don Juan
Hey, What's Happening?
I go to school in Northfield, Mn, but I am rolling back to Stillwater for the summer. I turn 21 this summer, and would love to check out the bar scene with some fellow DJs. My game is more structured to college (It pays to go to a Playboy top ten school), but I am thinking about becoming a proffesional wingman to help pay for law school.
Much love
AIM: thebrotrain00
I go to school in Northfield, Mn, but I am rolling back to Stillwater for the summer. I turn 21 this summer, and would love to check out the bar scene with some fellow DJs. My game is more structured to college (It pays to go to a Playboy top ten school), but I am thinking about becoming a proffesional wingman to help pay for law school.
Much love
AIM: thebrotrain00
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Well it's about d@mn time you became legal! I thought I'd be 60 before you'd be able to drink a Zima!Originally posted by Oxide
I am coming back to Burnsville this summer.
I know tropix/stargate is 18+
Escape/Spin is 18+ on thursdays..
by the way
I turn 21 in September!
You guys should take me out
HereToImprove
Don Juan
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I am from Minneapolis. Anyone want to go out on a sarge? PM me.
MascaraSnake
Senior Don Juan
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Living in Woodbury (not the worst suburb, but close), but will be relocating to Minneapolis or St. Paul before the year is out.
[email protected] if anyone has any plans.
[email protected] if anyone has any plans.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Whats good yall
I too currently live in woodbury, but will be moving to st paul area, I've been to any club/bar you can think off on and off the last two years
hit me up [email protected]
peace
I too currently live in woodbury, but will be moving to st paul area, I've been to any club/bar you can think off on and off the last two years
hit me up [email protected]
peace
Im 22. Looking for some wings around my age range (at least 21). Just moved to Minneapolis and live like 10 mins away from the main U. Lookin for some wingmen (maybe we could get a whole group together and start some lair) - PM me or e-mail me at [email protected]
Hey-
I'm around the St. Paul area, but I'm going to be pretty unavailable for the next few months.
[email protected]
Cheers.
-N
I'm around the St. Paul area, but I'm going to be pretty unavailable for the next few months.
[email protected]
Cheers.
-N
Solomon
Master Don Juan
^^^lol if you "unavaiable" then whats the point?
eeeh, not being a **** just pointing out the obvious
eeeh, not being a **** just pointing out the obvious
Heh, because 'unavailable' is never truly unavailable and because this thread was started like 5 years ago, so I figured I'd throw my email out there even though things might be a bit touch and go for the next few months--I'm planning long term here!
-N
-N
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.