Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I wonder if an old dog like me would have a chance in the Cities around all these young pups... 
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Minneapolis , Minneasota wanted
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
B.J. Van Beusekom
New Member
Minneapolis DJ's
I live in the western suburbs, so I am always looking for some bro's to chill with and to hit on some ladies. drop me a line
[email protected] perhaps I'll contact oxide, buck naked, or american outlaw. Downtown is my usual destination:Refuge, Brothers, or Lone Tree.
I live in the western suburbs, so I am always looking for some bro's to chill with and to hit on some ladies. drop me a line
[email protected] perhaps I'll contact oxide, buck naked, or american outlaw. Downtown is my usual destination:Refuge, Brothers, or Lone Tree.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
BUMP
Any MPLS/SP DJs want to get together to form a wing? Oxide wants to hook up but there's a problem with some of the DJs aren't quite legal and there are those that are ummmm, very legal. Anyone have any ideas of a good sarging venue (preferably a club) where the age thing isn't an issue. Some of us are just a bit too old for 'teenie-boppers' and they wouldn't necessarily go for our 'Ben-Gay' scent...
Any MPLS/SP DJs want to get together to form a wing? Oxide wants to hook up but there's a problem with some of the DJs aren't quite legal and there are those that are ummmm, very legal. Anyone have any ideas of a good sarging venue (preferably a club) where the age thing isn't an issue. Some of us are just a bit too old for 'teenie-boppers' and they wouldn't necessarily go for our 'Ben-Gay' scent...
Hey guys... Bloomington, MN here. 27, I know the scene and am up for getting an evening or something. Just found this site a couple days ago and have been browsing a lot.
I have been to *quite* a few bars in the Minneapolis area. Just recently found Valentinos in So. St Paul and that place is happening.
Finding a place for all ages might be a bit tough. Downtown is a bit young. Eden Prairie and couple other suburbs are a bit old. Surprisingly the Mall of America has a good mix. Yeah, I know you're all groaning now... it's actually pretty happening on a Sat night.
Anyway, I'm out... hope we figure something out.
I have been to *quite* a few bars in the Minneapolis area. Just recently found Valentinos in So. St Paul and that place is happening.
Finding a place for all ages might be a bit tough. Downtown is a bit young. Eden Prairie and couple other suburbs are a bit old. Surprisingly the Mall of America has a good mix. Yeah, I know you're all groaning now... it's actually pretty happening on a Sat night.
Anyway, I'm out... hope we figure something out.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
What's the deal at Jillians at the MOA? I know that there's a age limit after a certain time. Anyone know if it's 18 or 21?
stalluproar
Senior Don Juan
New Here
Just surfing around tonight and I see there are some people in my area active on this board.
I'd be interested in hanging with all of you who take the initiative to get women, dating, and seduction handled. I live in the south metro.
Just surfing around tonight and I see there are some people in my area active on this board.
I'd be interested in hanging with all of you who take the initiative to get women, dating, and seduction handled. I live in the south metro.
l-deezy
Don Juan
yeah im back
yeah i still live in Minneapolis and i've been looking for other dj's to hang out with so leave your # and i'll check everyday and keep looking for it.
one more thing Northside!!!
yeah i still live in Minneapolis and i've been looking for other dj's to hang out with so leave your # and i'll check everyday and keep looking for it.
one more thing Northside!!!
The Brotrain
Don Juan
Hey, What's Happening?
I go to school in Northfield, Mn, but I am rolling back to Stillwater for the summer. I turn 21 this summer, and would love to check out the bar scene with some fellow DJs. My game is more structured to college (It pays to go to a Playboy top ten school), but I am thinking about becoming a proffesional wingman to help pay for law school.
Much love
AIM: thebrotrain00
I go to school in Northfield, Mn, but I am rolling back to Stillwater for the summer. I turn 21 this summer, and would love to check out the bar scene with some fellow DJs. My game is more structured to college (It pays to go to a Playboy top ten school), but I am thinking about becoming a proffesional wingman to help pay for law school.
Much love
AIM: thebrotrain00
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Well it's about d@mn time you became legal! I thought I'd be 60 before you'd be able to drink a Zima!Originally posted by Oxide
I am coming back to Burnsville this summer.
I know tropix/stargate is 18+
Escape/Spin is 18+ on thursdays..
by the way
I turn 21 in September!
You guys should take me out
HereToImprove
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I am from Minneapolis. Anyone want to go out on a sarge? PM me.
MascaraSnake
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Living in Woodbury (not the worst suburb, but close), but will be relocating to Minneapolis or St. Paul before the year is out.
[email protected] if anyone has any plans.
[email protected] if anyone has any plans.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Whats good yall
I too currently live in woodbury, but will be moving to st paul area, I've been to any club/bar you can think off on and off the last two years
hit me up [email protected]
peace
I too currently live in woodbury, but will be moving to st paul area, I've been to any club/bar you can think off on and off the last two years
hit me up [email protected]
peace
Im 22. Looking for some wings around my age range (at least 21). Just moved to Minneapolis and live like 10 mins away from the main U. Lookin for some wingmen (maybe we could get a whole group together and start some lair) - PM me or e-mail me at [email protected]
Hey-
I'm around the St. Paul area, but I'm going to be pretty unavailable for the next few months.
[email protected]
Cheers.
-N
I'm around the St. Paul area, but I'm going to be pretty unavailable for the next few months.
[email protected]
Cheers.
-N
Solomon
Master Don Juan
^^^lol if you "unavaiable" then whats the point?
eeeh, not being a **** just pointing out the obvious
eeeh, not being a **** just pointing out the obvious
Heh, because 'unavailable' is never truly unavailable and because this thread was started like 5 years ago, so I figured I'd throw my email out there even though things might be a bit touch and go for the next few months--I'm planning long term here!
-N
-N
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.