Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I wonder if an old dog like me would have a chance in the Cities around all these young pups... 
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Minneapolis , Minneasota wanted
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
B.J. Van Beusekom
New Member
Minneapolis DJ's
I live in the western suburbs, so I am always looking for some bro's to chill with and to hit on some ladies. drop me a line
[email protected] perhaps I'll contact oxide, buck naked, or american outlaw. Downtown is my usual destination:Refuge, Brothers, or Lone Tree.
I live in the western suburbs, so I am always looking for some bro's to chill with and to hit on some ladies. drop me a line
[email protected] perhaps I'll contact oxide, buck naked, or american outlaw. Downtown is my usual destination:Refuge, Brothers, or Lone Tree.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
BUMP
Any MPLS/SP DJs want to get together to form a wing? Oxide wants to hook up but there's a problem with some of the DJs aren't quite legal and there are those that are ummmm, very legal. Anyone have any ideas of a good sarging venue (preferably a club) where the age thing isn't an issue. Some of us are just a bit too old for 'teenie-boppers' and they wouldn't necessarily go for our 'Ben-Gay' scent...
Any MPLS/SP DJs want to get together to form a wing? Oxide wants to hook up but there's a problem with some of the DJs aren't quite legal and there are those that are ummmm, very legal. Anyone have any ideas of a good sarging venue (preferably a club) where the age thing isn't an issue. Some of us are just a bit too old for 'teenie-boppers' and they wouldn't necessarily go for our 'Ben-Gay' scent...
Hey guys... Bloomington, MN here. 27, I know the scene and am up for getting an evening or something. Just found this site a couple days ago and have been browsing a lot.
I have been to *quite* a few bars in the Minneapolis area. Just recently found Valentinos in So. St Paul and that place is happening.
Finding a place for all ages might be a bit tough. Downtown is a bit young. Eden Prairie and couple other suburbs are a bit old. Surprisingly the Mall of America has a good mix. Yeah, I know you're all groaning now... it's actually pretty happening on a Sat night.
Anyway, I'm out... hope we figure something out.
I have been to *quite* a few bars in the Minneapolis area. Just recently found Valentinos in So. St Paul and that place is happening.
Finding a place for all ages might be a bit tough. Downtown is a bit young. Eden Prairie and couple other suburbs are a bit old. Surprisingly the Mall of America has a good mix. Yeah, I know you're all groaning now... it's actually pretty happening on a Sat night.
Anyway, I'm out... hope we figure something out.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
What's the deal at Jillians at the MOA? I know that there's a age limit after a certain time. Anyone know if it's 18 or 21?
stalluproar
Senior Don Juan
New Here
Just surfing around tonight and I see there are some people in my area active on this board.
I'd be interested in hanging with all of you who take the initiative to get women, dating, and seduction handled. I live in the south metro.
Just surfing around tonight and I see there are some people in my area active on this board.
I'd be interested in hanging with all of you who take the initiative to get women, dating, and seduction handled. I live in the south metro.
l-deezy
Don Juan
yeah im back
yeah i still live in Minneapolis and i've been looking for other dj's to hang out with so leave your # and i'll check everyday and keep looking for it.
one more thing Northside!!!
yeah i still live in Minneapolis and i've been looking for other dj's to hang out with so leave your # and i'll check everyday and keep looking for it.
one more thing Northside!!!
The Brotrain
Don Juan
Hey, What's Happening?
I go to school in Northfield, Mn, but I am rolling back to Stillwater for the summer. I turn 21 this summer, and would love to check out the bar scene with some fellow DJs. My game is more structured to college (It pays to go to a Playboy top ten school), but I am thinking about becoming a proffesional wingman to help pay for law school.
Much love
AIM: thebrotrain00
I go to school in Northfield, Mn, but I am rolling back to Stillwater for the summer. I turn 21 this summer, and would love to check out the bar scene with some fellow DJs. My game is more structured to college (It pays to go to a Playboy top ten school), but I am thinking about becoming a proffesional wingman to help pay for law school.
Much love
AIM: thebrotrain00
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Well it's about d@mn time you became legal! I thought I'd be 60 before you'd be able to drink a Zima!Originally posted by Oxide
I am coming back to Burnsville this summer.
I know tropix/stargate is 18+
Escape/Spin is 18+ on thursdays..
by the way
I turn 21 in September!
You guys should take me out
HereToImprove
Don Juan
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I am from Minneapolis. Anyone want to go out on a sarge? PM me.
MascaraSnake
Senior Don Juan
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Living in Woodbury (not the worst suburb, but close), but will be relocating to Minneapolis or St. Paul before the year is out.
[email protected] if anyone has any plans.
[email protected] if anyone has any plans.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Whats good yall
I too currently live in woodbury, but will be moving to st paul area, I've been to any club/bar you can think off on and off the last two years
hit me up [email protected]
peace
I too currently live in woodbury, but will be moving to st paul area, I've been to any club/bar you can think off on and off the last two years
hit me up [email protected]
peace
Im 22. Looking for some wings around my age range (at least 21). Just moved to Minneapolis and live like 10 mins away from the main U. Lookin for some wingmen (maybe we could get a whole group together and start some lair) - PM me or e-mail me at [email protected]
Hey-
I'm around the St. Paul area, but I'm going to be pretty unavailable for the next few months.
[email protected]
Cheers.
-N
I'm around the St. Paul area, but I'm going to be pretty unavailable for the next few months.
[email protected]
Cheers.
-N
Solomon
Master Don Juan
^^^lol if you "unavaiable" then whats the point?
eeeh, not being a **** just pointing out the obvious
eeeh, not being a **** just pointing out the obvious
Heh, because 'unavailable' is never truly unavailable and because this thread was started like 5 years ago, so I figured I'd throw my email out there even though things might be a bit touch and go for the next few months--I'm planning long term here!
-N
-N
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.