"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I need a new mindset. All this time I have been doing my stupid ass AFC personality and adding some DJ techniques. I need an event that will change my view. I don't want to be a complete ass to these girls and I think some of the guys here only want some ***** and then discard them. The original Don Juan was a smooth man but he didnt just pop and drop the women. Someone post me some more motivational quotes or maybe an experience. I know I have it in me. I have all the skills but not the mindset. I keep on making friends and not making ladies. Tonight I got stuff like "Youre very real and interested". I'm tired of this ****. I want some sexual activity. I'm a damn junior and havent even gotten a HJ. Help me out guys.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ur that desperate for a hand job, do as someone once said, sit on your hand until it goes numbe and then jerk off - it will feel like someone else is giving you a handjob:D
 
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ur that desperate for a hand job, do as someone once said, sit on your hand until it goes numbe and then jerk off - it will feel like someone else is giving you a handjob
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Trust me man, I can definitely relate. Just think of it this way: What's the point of using DJ techniques if you don't have the mindset of a DJ? They're worthless unless you have the attitude. I suggest going through the boot camp. It really does help a lot. You'll find out later that as hard as it is to get rid of your AFC tendencies you'll be rewarded tremendously later on in life. Being an AFC will get you nowhere. No matter how much you think you care about a girl, what's the fun in sitting around and worrying about what she's doing or who she's with? Enjoy life and your relationships.
 
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thanks jerky thats good stuff. I am going to try the boot camp. I've decided I'm taking a break and going to just play my bass and work out.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Having a mindset of "I want some sex and I want it now" could be causing you to drop the women too early before they have a chance to open up to you sexually. If you want to prompt it, start advancing more when you're making out. If you start the train, usually they will follow.
 
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