"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hotcypress

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I need a new mindset. All this time I have been doing my stupid ass AFC personality and adding some DJ techniques. I need an event that will change my view. I don't want to be a complete ass to these girls and I think some of the guys here only want some ***** and then discard them. The original Don Juan was a smooth man but he didnt just pop and drop the women. Someone post me some more motivational quotes or maybe an experience. I know I have it in me. I have all the skills but not the mindset. I keep on making friends and not making ladies. Tonight I got stuff like "Youre very real and interested". I'm tired of this ****. I want some sexual activity. I'm a damn junior and havent even gotten a HJ. Help me out guys.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ur that desperate for a hand job, do as someone once said, sit on your hand until it goes numbe and then jerk off - it will feel like someone else is giving you a handjob:D
 

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ur that desperate for a hand job, do as someone once said, sit on your hand until it goes numbe and then jerk off - it will feel like someone else is giving you a handjob
Ahahahhahaha
 

Jerky Boi

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Trust me man, I can definitely relate. Just think of it this way: What's the point of using DJ techniques if you don't have the mindset of a DJ? They're worthless unless you have the attitude. I suggest going through the boot camp. It really does help a lot. You'll find out later that as hard as it is to get rid of your AFC tendencies you'll be rewarded tremendously later on in life. Being an AFC will get you nowhere. No matter how much you think you care about a girl, what's the fun in sitting around and worrying about what she's doing or who she's with? Enjoy life and your relationships.
 

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thanks jerky thats good stuff. I am going to try the boot camp. I've decided I'm taking a break and going to just play my bass and work out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Having a mindset of "I want some sex and I want it now" could be causing you to drop the women too early before they have a chance to open up to you sexually. If you want to prompt it, start advancing more when you're making out. If you start the train, usually they will follow.
 
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