"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mind games = Major attraction

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Get to know a girl first. Show her a good, funny, quasi caring side of you. Then get pissed off at her, get into a fight (verbally) and let it drag on, by not talking to her for a while. I don't know why, but this generates a lot of attraction and I've actually gotten most of my GF's this way. It's almost like they're thinking "Wow, this guy seemed like a nice guy, but then he showed me this other side of him where he acts like a jackass, and I don't know which side to believe. I'm gonna date him and find out."

It works folks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Let's hope so! Because after some careful thought i came to the same conclusion and have been and am currently doing this.

I think most women like the games because it creates the drama/attraction for them. They invented it so guess us guys need to be better at it. It sure as hell doesn't follow logic, but rather emotions in motion.

Myself being really logical has a hard time coming to terms in playing the 'game' but am mastering it :) like anything else i do or want to become the best at.
 

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Been there, done that. Except when I did it the last time the girl turned out to be a very nice and warm and caring person, and I messedup by playing games when her world didn't revolve around them. Games...
 
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