"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mind games = Major attraction

ghost21

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Get to know a girl first. Show her a good, funny, quasi caring side of you. Then get pissed off at her, get into a fight (verbally) and let it drag on, by not talking to her for a while. I don't know why, but this generates a lot of attraction and I've actually gotten most of my GF's this way. It's almost like they're thinking "Wow, this guy seemed like a nice guy, but then he showed me this other side of him where he acts like a jackass, and I don't know which side to believe. I'm gonna date him and find out."

It works folks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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tmpgstx

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Let's hope so! Because after some careful thought i came to the same conclusion and have been and am currently doing this.

I think most women like the games because it creates the drama/attraction for them. They invented it so guess us guys need to be better at it. It sure as hell doesn't follow logic, but rather emotions in motion.

Myself being really logical has a hard time coming to terms in playing the 'game' but am mastering it :) like anything else i do or want to become the best at.
 

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Been there, done that. Except when I did it the last time the girl turned out to be a very nice and warm and caring person, and I messedup by playing games when her world didn't revolve around them. Games...
 
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