"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mind games = Major attraction

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Get to know a girl first. Show her a good, funny, quasi caring side of you. Then get pissed off at her, get into a fight (verbally) and let it drag on, by not talking to her for a while. I don't know why, but this generates a lot of attraction and I've actually gotten most of my GF's this way. It's almost like they're thinking "Wow, this guy seemed like a nice guy, but then he showed me this other side of him where he acts like a jackass, and I don't know which side to believe. I'm gonna date him and find out."

It works folks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Let's hope so! Because after some careful thought i came to the same conclusion and have been and am currently doing this.

I think most women like the games because it creates the drama/attraction for them. They invented it so guess us guys need to be better at it. It sure as hell doesn't follow logic, but rather emotions in motion.

Myself being really logical has a hard time coming to terms in playing the 'game' but am mastering it :) like anything else i do or want to become the best at.
 

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Been there, done that. Except when I did it the last time the girl turned out to be a very nice and warm and caring person, and I messedup by playing games when her world didn't revolve around them. Games...
 
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