"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Milk?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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forget oj, it's in most ways worse. get your nutrition from green veggies, whole food protein sources, etc. and supplement with a multivitamin.
 

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About how much veggies per day should you have? I'm about to be 16 btw
 

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The only time I drink milk is in protein shakes, and even then I try to have low fat milk. Do I need to cut this out or is there anything else I can mix protein powder with?
 

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it's damn near impossible to eat too many veggies, especially if you stick to salads (with little or no dressing) and really green ones like straight up green beans with a little salt or butter.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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there are several schools of thought on milk here. if you're adding it to a postworkout shake, i would strongly advise you to only use fat free milk (fat gums up the absorption that you want as rapid as possible right after lifting)

the rest of the time, add whatever makes the shake palatable. only avoid milk totally if you're trying to lean out entirely (something I've never done nor worried about, so i can't tell you whether losing the milk helps or not)
 

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skimmed milk is good, just at the right time - get it throughout the day but cut down in the evening 'cos of the carbs

it's good in a shake too

oh yeah, fruit and vegetables - if you can get your hands on them, the more the better :)
 
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