Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Agreed. I can't stand chicks who need to paint their face on every day.spartanfan said:I agree with atom if given the chance that girl is way too fake for me... I mean even kissing her all that makeup crap might come right off into your mouth and I would be puking it up the rest of the night... freaking nasty man!!!!![]()
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
^Yep.iqqi said:This just goes to show how silly some of you men are on this site. Mila Kunis is hot, and I would toss her salad, just like she did to Natalie Portman is Black Swan.
http://www.panelsonpages.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/natalie-portman-mila-kunis-black-swan.jpg
You are judging her for wearing make up? You are judging her appearances in public, which are usually events that are photographed. And she is a celebrity. Of course she is wearing make up! Most women wear make up anytime they go out to dinner or to have a night out. And this woman is being photographed on the red carpet. What the hell is wrong with you, lol?
She is pretty natural, and cute for the most part and compared to many woman. Also her personality is apparently not bad either.
You guys crack me up sometimes. How do you expect to be taken seriously??
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That picture is not real. Wow..... thank you for that, though.Burroughs said:to know if mila is hot you must look beyond the surface...hollywood makeup artists are amazing and skilled they can make a cokehead look like ms universe.
mila is far uglier that you can possibly imagine sans makeup
she is pretty hideous
think i'm lying?
want to challenge me...
really?
ok
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-MRlZC3RD2...pu1iDQ/s1600/Mila_Kunis_Without_Makeup_08.jpg
try not to throw up
idiots need to stop buying into the hollywood myth
Is this a joke? Have you ever heard of Photoshop.....lolBurroughs said:http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-MRlZC3RD2...pu1iDQ/s1600/Mila_Kunis_Without_Makeup_08.jpg
try not to throw up
idiots need to stop buying into the hollywood myth
Sir Psycho Sexy said:Is this a joke? Have you ever heard of Photoshop.....lol
You really thought that was her?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
See, the funny thing about that picture is that as a woman I can immediately tell it's a photoshop not only because it's just plain obvious, but because why in the world would her hair be done, but not her face? Her hair is styled in that picture, and no woman has her hair done when her face is shot. She is posing for the camera... with her hair done... but no make up? You obviously know nothing about the entertainment industry, ... lol.Burroughs said:you obviously know nothing about the entertainment industry lol
Every time there is a thread you take one thing from the post and manage to spin it around and start another conversation relating to your personal life. I just find it entertaining. I probably know a lot more of your wife and kid than I should just from reading some of your posts.backbreaker said:i don't like real life salads or tossed salads. i don't care how hot she is.
lol it's funny there is not enough money on earth to get me to eat a salad. i fvcking hate salads. i will pick the croutons off my wife's salad like a 10 year old and dip them in ranch dressing but that's it. on the other hand my son loves salad like his mom and like when we go to red lobster or what not and you know how you can get the appetizer substituted for an apple sauce or whatever, i will tell them to bring 2 salads and one apple sauce and they automatically always bring the apple sauce to my son and the salad to me and we always switch. i will eat apple sauce all day long.
as far as the no makeup bit, that's pretty much any woman you roll over to in the morning. she's not going to be a HB 8 once she gets upa nd goes to brush her teeth my wife included.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.