"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mike's current state of affairs.

ElStud

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Well lol in college and got my own apartment. But basically I've been approaching a lot and sh*t hasn't really been going anywhere. Like I'll approach a lot of sets, but stuff doesn't go anywhere. Because of this I'm just highly considering giving up the whole thing. I mean I love going up to sets, just to improve my social skills, but nothing goes anywhere. Good news though is I actually called a girl and now we're on for next week.

But yeah, it's like I said... when it comes to girls vs. video games, I'd prefer video games because they're actually fun. There's this college dance tonight, but I don't know if I'm gonna go or not. And yes, this is my current state of affairs. I think my main problem is... I need to find a bigger purpose than women in life. I focus way too much on them.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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dav27

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If i was still at square one after being on this site for what must be nearly 2 years i'd be thinking i'm overlooking something big. Have a think.
 

theunflushables

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ElStud said:
Well lol in college and got my own apartment. But basically I've been approaching a lot and sh*t hasn't really been going anywhere. Like I'll approach a lot of sets, but stuff doesn't go anywhere. Because of this I'm just highly considering giving up the whole thing. I mean I love going up to sets, just to improve my social skills, but nothing goes anywhere. Good news though is I actually called a girl and now we're on for next week.

But yeah, it's like I said... when it comes to girls vs. video games, I'd prefer video games because they're actually fun. There's this college dance tonight, but I don't know if I'm gonna go or not. And yes, this is my current state of affairs. I think my main problem is... I need to find a bigger purpose than women in life. I focus way too much on them.
El, see look, we've been telling you to call your numbers and set up a day two. Now that you've got one set up, you have to escalate.

As far as videogames being more fun than girls, I have to disagree, I'd rather be giving a girl a healthy deepd1cking than mashing buttons to make charchters on the screen move.

But yes, you do find a bigger purpose in life than women. That purpose should be yourself.
 

Solomon

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ROFL @ video games being more fun then girls

what kind of girls you approaching?

bwahhahahahahaha
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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